why do you care so much?
POSTED ON: Friday, April 16, 2010 @ 6:56 AM | 0 comments
hello everyone.
as per usual, reached school early. so time, for a shortshort update. heh. (: anyhow, yeahs. this week had been a busy busy week with IR (its so
bloody hot in the afternoon! *faint*) and alot of high-ness with akhyar and some of my girlfriends in class. hectic but amazingly, i still survived.
read this from akhyar's blog and i thought that i should post my views on this topic too. you know.The question is:
Adakah anda akan mengubah diri anda untuk mendekati diri seorang pelajar lelaki atau pelajar perempuan yang anda sukai?
Well, firstly, to answer that above question, i think that we first have to like ourselves for who we are. I mean, we can't possibly get other people to like us for who we are when we don't even like ourselves for that in the first place right? Mengubah diri hanya semata-mata untuk mendekati diri seorang pelajar lelaki is so shallow. If a person likes you, he should appreciate you for who you are - your strengths and your flaws. so, i fikir, what's the point of changing just for that sake? And perhaps, be realistic, at times it may not even last. True enough, love is blind, its irrational, so bizarre that it makes you do crazy things but whatever it is it is not an excuse for you to change your identity. your personality is your identity. its you and its how people can connect and relate to you for who you are. so, its not worth that gamble. And as for me, well, I don't think that i will do that you know - change just cos I want to 'mendekatkan diri' to a person i supposedly admire. love comes and go. But i believe in fate, i believe that God already has put in place someone for you, who will accept your strengths and flaws, so, just be yourself and you'll be amazed.
after being under the stress radar for quite alot this week, i was thinking of going out after finish studying all this while. maybe, get daddy dearest to bring me go town or just cycle at east coast. i am so tired of looking at the same things everyday. its been ages since i last feel the sea breeze and totally enjoy the sun and sea. we'll see how this week. if, i can make time.
mid years are starting next week. yeahs, that's exactly how fast time flies. its so scary when you think about it. and i got scared too. everybody's panicking already and i am equally afraid. but i am always, always trying to reassure myself that this is just the beginning. i think that there is alot more to come. and as for the people who's always been there for me, i never failed to acknowledge them in my life . thank you so much for hearing me out, cheering me on and standing by me. it is an amazing feeling to know that at the end of the day, there will always be these people who is your drive, your motivation for you to just do well and go all out. to exceed your own expectations. thank you so much. i know that words are not enough to express my gratititude. i love each and everyone of you, alot.
i know you care. i know. and thank you for that.
with loves.
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why do you care so much?
POSTED ON: Friday, April 16, 2010 @ 6:56 AM | 0 comments
hello everyone.
as per usual, reached school early. so time, for a shortshort update. heh. (: anyhow, yeahs. this week had been a busy busy week with IR (its so
bloody hot in the afternoon! *faint*) and alot of high-ness with akhyar and some of my girlfriends in class. hectic but amazingly, i still survived.
read this from akhyar's blog and i thought that i should post my views on this topic too. you know.The question is:
Adakah anda akan mengubah diri anda untuk mendekati diri seorang pelajar lelaki atau pelajar perempuan yang anda sukai?
Well, firstly, to answer that above question, i think that we first have to like ourselves for who we are. I mean, we can't possibly get other people to like us for who we are when we don't even like ourselves for that in the first place right? Mengubah diri hanya semata-mata untuk mendekati diri seorang pelajar lelaki is so shallow. If a person likes you, he should appreciate you for who you are - your strengths and your flaws. so, i fikir, what's the point of changing just for that sake? And perhaps, be realistic, at times it may not even last. True enough, love is blind, its irrational, so bizarre that it makes you do crazy things but whatever it is it is not an excuse for you to change your identity. your personality is your identity. its you and its how people can connect and relate to you for who you are. so, its not worth that gamble. And as for me, well, I don't think that i will do that you know - change just cos I want to 'mendekatkan diri' to a person i supposedly admire. love comes and go. But i believe in fate, i believe that God already has put in place someone for you, who will accept your strengths and flaws, so, just be yourself and you'll be amazed.
after being under the stress radar for quite alot this week, i was thinking of going out after finish studying all this while. maybe, get daddy dearest to bring me go town or just cycle at east coast. i am so tired of looking at the same things everyday. its been ages since i last feel the sea breeze and totally enjoy the sun and sea. we'll see how this week. if, i can make time.
mid years are starting next week. yeahs, that's exactly how fast time flies. its so scary when you think about it. and i got scared too. everybody's panicking already and i am equally afraid. but i am always, always trying to reassure myself that this is just the beginning. i think that there is alot more to come. and as for the people who's always been there for me, i never failed to acknowledge them in my life . thank you so much for hearing me out, cheering me on and standing by me. it is an amazing feeling to know that at the end of the day, there will always be these people who is your drive, your motivation for you to just do well and go all out. to exceed your own expectations. thank you so much. i know that words are not enough to express my gratititude. i love each and everyone of you, alot.
i know you care. i know. and thank you for that.
with loves.
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